A man’s point of view
Some women and most definitely a high proportion of Eastern European, Russian women wear their hopes and dreams and hearts on their sleeves . To a certain kind of man they immediately become "easy prey". As I have grown up with English women but traveled extensively, I can safely tell you from my direct experiences, that this sincerity and openness is not found here in any way to the same immediate degree or intensity.
Therefore, for many men, meeting such a "new" and different approach is like giving a predatory wild animal a new type of "free" food and diet .
This does not make such men a total danger. Rather, you should realize they have entered a new and different culture which they most certainly do not understand and initially the situation is simply that they are very happy to play with their new "toys.
To any women recognizing these factors and the general scenario, I say , keep prospective suitors on a tight leash . And rewrite your profile in a way which initially is more light hearted and wider --- to start with pen pals, friendship, romance, travel rather than marriage. Think and talk "marriage” after you have met and found you have a friend whom you also find attractive physically and mentally.
So many women personals ads seem to read “Emotionally Desperate" in their sub-text though literally they only report the Truth.
2009-05-27
Writing Personal Ads
A woman’s point of view
the best that both men and women can do is to be themselves in their profiles. The only thing is that they should try to show their positive and attractive arts at first, like they do when they first meet people in real life. It is better to write not what you want to find but who you are...
I like profiles that make you feel that the person is ready for meeting new people, that the person is mature enough to be themselves and that the person is happy with every day they live. A profile should definitely be positive, make people feel like they want to get to know this person for sure. It is the same like in real life, when you go out to meet some people you first try to make a positive impression, online personals profiles should be considered and equaled to be like the first monologue in real life...Just imagine you stand on a stage in a club, pub, etc. and need to say something to people there so that to attract them. Whatever you have said on that stage, write it down in your personal ad. I have met a very interesting person online. When he sent me a message i didnt like neither his photos nor his message so i didnt respond. but when i checked the profile i changed my mind, dont know why, there was some useless stuff in this profile but exactly the same stuff i would like to hear from a man.
the best that both men and women can do is to be themselves in their profiles. The only thing is that they should try to show their positive and attractive arts at first, like they do when they first meet people in real life. It is better to write not what you want to find but who you are...
I like profiles that make you feel that the person is ready for meeting new people, that the person is mature enough to be themselves and that the person is happy with every day they live. A profile should definitely be positive, make people feel like they want to get to know this person for sure. It is the same like in real life, when you go out to meet some people you first try to make a positive impression, online personals profiles should be considered and equaled to be like the first monologue in real life...Just imagine you stand on a stage in a club, pub, etc. and need to say something to people there so that to attract them. Whatever you have said on that stage, write it down in your personal ad. I have met a very interesting person online. When he sent me a message i didnt like neither his photos nor his message so i didnt respond. but when i checked the profile i changed my mind, dont know why, there was some useless stuff in this profile but exactly the same stuff i would like to hear from a man.
2009-05-14
Online Russian Personals
Are you new to Russian online dating? Are you wondering why so many people are now using the internet to meet and date personals from Russia? Russian personals seeking partners for dating are amongst the millions adopting this new online approach to dating.
In today's hectic society most single people miss out on having the time to meet their partners. Single Russian women personals seem to be at the fore front of this online dating movement with many of them being eager to meet foreign men especially foreign men seeking Russian women for dating.
If you were under the preconceived notion that the Russian women seeking dating are uneducated, docile and mostly after your money then you have the wrong idea, Russian women are more independent and far from being submissive. They view the idea of a Russian dating (please, do not confuse with mail order brides agencies) and online personals sites as being very liberating as they have the choice of selecting their own partners in a safe and easy to understand environment. They have the choice to date American or Australian singles or Russian singles in Europe, who may have adopted a more Western culture towards dating.
How often would you meet a Russian single woman your own country? Chances are unless you are from the USA where there is a large number of Russian American singles, the only way to meet these personals is to actually go to Russia! Why do all that when you can join a respectable Russian dating site which has one goal to help you find your soulmate and marriage.
Russian Chat rooms are another great place to meet online personals, they join these chat rooms as another way to get to know their selected partner. Topics in these chat rooms could range from simple Russian dating talks to marriage issues, jobs, life and a whole lot of other conversations.
so if you have been asking yourself why you should join an online Russian personals site, the answer should be quite clear by now! It's fun, easy and there are hundreds of personals seeking partners for dating marriage living in different countries all over the world! Take your chance!
In today's hectic society most single people miss out on having the time to meet their partners. Single Russian women personals seem to be at the fore front of this online dating movement with many of them being eager to meet foreign men especially foreign men seeking Russian women for dating.
If you were under the preconceived notion that the Russian women seeking dating are uneducated, docile and mostly after your money then you have the wrong idea, Russian women are more independent and far from being submissive. They view the idea of a Russian dating (please, do not confuse with mail order brides agencies) and online personals sites as being very liberating as they have the choice of selecting their own partners in a safe and easy to understand environment. They have the choice to date American or Australian singles or Russian singles in Europe, who may have adopted a more Western culture towards dating.
How often would you meet a Russian single woman your own country? Chances are unless you are from the USA where there is a large number of Russian American singles, the only way to meet these personals is to actually go to Russia! Why do all that when you can join a respectable Russian dating site which has one goal to help you find your soulmate and marriage.
Russian Chat rooms are another great place to meet online personals, they join these chat rooms as another way to get to know their selected partner. Topics in these chat rooms could range from simple Russian dating talks to marriage issues, jobs, life and a whole lot of other conversations.
so if you have been asking yourself why you should join an online Russian personals site, the answer should be quite clear by now! It's fun, easy and there are hundreds of personals seeking partners for dating marriage living in different countries all over the world! Take your chance!
2009-05-12
online personals work?
Hi to all, my name is Van and I’m from the Netherlands. My story is closely related to the subject as I also met the woman of my dreams in the net. So I would also like to thank those guys for their matchmaking service as their dating site was the place where I met my second half, my girlfriend Rima.
At that time two years ago I was working on one project connected with model business and I was looking for pretty girls from post-soviet countries to offer them work in my project. We did it because we needed not professional models but girls who could be met on the streets, in the shops and so on and I have never seen so many beauties as I saw in Russia, Ukraine and Belarus and well I must agree that expenses would be lower too as many of the girls were glad to be shoot for women magazines just for the fact they would be there. And this also was a project for one state popular magazine about girls and women from all around the world. Not the last reason I took that part of job on myself was that I was really interested in Russian girls myself (as I met some already during my previous trips to the FSU countries). So I went to Kiev and meanwhile I was looking for the appropriate faces on the streets I also registered myself on several dating sites and luckylovers was only one of them.
After month of work I almost finished my part of work and I also really found some girls with whom I was really interested to work further. All those times I got a number of messages from a number of girls and women who would like to participate in my project and even some of them were not ok for camera I made a lot of friends in Kiev and Moscow (cities I choose for my project). And Rima was one from them, she was so great and sexy that I caught myself on the thought I would not shoot her now; I had another project in my head for her. So we started chatting and continued our chats after I came back to the Netherlands again….mmm…she was positive and friendly that I ran home to meet her online again. She refused chatting outside luckylovers where we met and I became a frequent user of their services. I was really confident that she will work with me; she was 25 years old young lady with Slavic features and spirit. Why not? She seemed to be made for my project and when she refused to come to the Netherlands it was a great shock for me. That was a failure. I did not switch on the computer for nearly two days as it was hard to imagine that all those images I painted in my head would never become true. But she contacted me again and explained everything, I could not believe my ears – she could not come because she feels she loves me and it would be too hard for her to see me and to know I could not be hers. Oh, my God, seems the sun has fallen on my head as I heard this and without being sure about what I was doing I told her I love her too.
And…after one more month of chatting and organizing of this meeting Rima came to the Netherlands. We started working together and loving each other. Her pictures are the best works of mine till now and I am so proud of my model. We are living in both countries from that time and we hope to live together in the future.
At that time two years ago I was working on one project connected with model business and I was looking for pretty girls from post-soviet countries to offer them work in my project. We did it because we needed not professional models but girls who could be met on the streets, in the shops and so on and I have never seen so many beauties as I saw in Russia, Ukraine and Belarus and well I must agree that expenses would be lower too as many of the girls were glad to be shoot for women magazines just for the fact they would be there. And this also was a project for one state popular magazine about girls and women from all around the world. Not the last reason I took that part of job on myself was that I was really interested in Russian girls myself (as I met some already during my previous trips to the FSU countries). So I went to Kiev and meanwhile I was looking for the appropriate faces on the streets I also registered myself on several dating sites and luckylovers was only one of them.
After month of work I almost finished my part of work and I also really found some girls with whom I was really interested to work further. All those times I got a number of messages from a number of girls and women who would like to participate in my project and even some of them were not ok for camera I made a lot of friends in Kiev and Moscow (cities I choose for my project). And Rima was one from them, she was so great and sexy that I caught myself on the thought I would not shoot her now; I had another project in my head for her. So we started chatting and continued our chats after I came back to the Netherlands again….mmm…she was positive and friendly that I ran home to meet her online again. She refused chatting outside luckylovers where we met and I became a frequent user of their services. I was really confident that she will work with me; she was 25 years old young lady with Slavic features and spirit. Why not? She seemed to be made for my project and when she refused to come to the Netherlands it was a great shock for me. That was a failure. I did not switch on the computer for nearly two days as it was hard to imagine that all those images I painted in my head would never become true. But she contacted me again and explained everything, I could not believe my ears – she could not come because she feels she loves me and it would be too hard for her to see me and to know I could not be hers. Oh, my God, seems the sun has fallen on my head as I heard this and without being sure about what I was doing I told her I love her too.
And…after one more month of chatting and organizing of this meeting Rima came to the Netherlands. We started working together and loving each other. Her pictures are the best works of mine till now and I am so proud of my model. We are living in both countries from that time and we hope to live together in the future.
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